Men are still faced with the age old question; what do women really want? It seems like all of the rules are changing. Political correctness is everywhere. Does it mean that women don't want men to be men? Does it mean that everyone should be the same? No! Equal but different is the real way REAL women want to be viewed.
Writing as a wife, mom, and career woman, I want men to know how to really impress real women. I want my son to know how to do this when he comes of age. Real women want to be loved, protected, respected, romanced, and desired. We want men to love us for who we are, not for what the fashion magazines say we should be.
So, how do you guys impress a real woman? Treat her like a woman! Tell her how wonderful she looks. Talk to her as if she were an equal. Value her opinions. Compliment her on her figure.
Buy her flowers. Buy her jewelry. Be romantic. Make time just for the two of you.
Why do so called bad boys get so many women? Not because they're bad boys, but because they are good at romancing women. They make a woman feel special. They make a woman feel like she's the only one in the world when she's with them. Believe me, I know. I dated my share of bad boys.
I didn't marry one, though. I married a man who most people would consider to be one of those so called nice guys that finish last. He is much more than a nice guy, however. He has a good job, believes in fidelity, is secure with his own sexuality, and makes me feel like his queen.
What impressed me about him? He spoke directly to me. He spoke to me as if I had an IQ. Still, he let me know he was the man and I was the woman.
He opens doors. He mows the lawn. He also cooks from time to time, and even does laundry once in a while. He takes the time to please me in bed, which impresses any woman, guys!
So, let's recap, men. How do you impress a REAL woman? Do blur the gender roles. Be a man. Do treat women like they're special. Don't treat them like they're subservient. Do your best to blend the best of the bad boy's techniques, with the strengths of the nice guy's morals. It works.
Don't let chivalry fall victim to political correctness. Treat that real woman your heart desires like a lady, you'll impress her for sure.
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